Wow, where do I even begin? My au pair program started off quite well, but the first family I was paired with had some issues that were beyond my understanding. I reached out to my agent, and he quickly found me a better-suited family, and it’s safe to say I had the best four months of my life in Beijing.
My host family consisted of four people: mom, dad, their son Lucas, and an aunt who took care of everyone. I spent most of my time with Lucas and aunty since the parents often traveled for business. From the moment I arrived, they welcomed me with open arms and made me feel like part of the family. They gave me a cozy room, shared their culture with me, and filled the house with warmth and laughter.
Lucas and I became like real siblings (we even turned The Lion King’s “I Always Wanted a Brother” song into our own little anthem with a twist). We bonded over our shared interests, exchanged knowledge, and taught each other things that went beyond books. His maturity and kindness were far beyond his years, and he had this adorable habit of leaving little “I love you” notes around the house for me to find.
I gave him English lessons, watched his confidence grow, and felt so proud seeing his progress. I also introduced him to some Western dishes — and now he prefers homemade pizza over store-bought ones! 🍕🤣
Leaving home to cross oceans into the unknown isn’t easy. Fear creeps in. But with the right host family and support, you’ll always find comfort, even when things get confusing or difficult. Some days were perfect, others a bit tough, but I never felt alone.
On my days off, I explored Beijing, traveled around China, met amazing people, learned Chinese, and tried every kind of food I could find (everything’s so affordable and convenient!). This experience wasn’t just about being an au pair; it was about self-discovery. I learned who I am, what I want, and even found a new path for my future. With the agency’s help, I landed a teaching job and decided to stay in China longer as an English teacher.
To anyone feeling uncertain about their future, take that leap. Find that family and that child who will change your life in ways you never imagined. ❤️
Thank you, Global Youth Au Pairs