Wanderlust Exchange

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Nana
5/5
Yes, I recommend this program

Au Pair in Beijing

Finished 3 months program in Beijing. It was the first time I've participated in the program and the overall experience was very positive! It gave me a lot of opportunities to explore the city, understand the local ways of life and experience it firsthand, try new cuisine, broaden my ESL teaching experience and most importantly learn the chinese language. Living expenses are covered, which allows us to have a comfortable time while staying in a foreign environment. Both the local families and WE are ready to support us through daily life and other difficulties. I'm continuing my program in Harbin now, absolutely recommend coming here and experiencing this on your own!

What was the most nerve-racking moment and how did you overcome it?
Squeezing in the overcrowded metro of Beijing was a tough challenge at first, but overtime I learned to use other methods of convenient transportation such as public shared bikes, buses, Didi, etc.
Pros
  • Exploring new cities/country
  • Opportunity to learn a new language
  • Connect with the locals
Cons
  • Can be difficult to adjust at first
  • Making friends in smaller cities could be a challenge
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Aadi
4/5
Yes, I recommend this program

Wanderlust Exchange Review

I started this program in October of 2024. My arrival was very smooth as I received lots of help my co-ordinator was there to collect me from the airport and everyone ensured I had what I needed. The families and the agency were all very nice and a massive help with the transition to life in China. Despite small challenges they were easy to overcome with the help of the agency. This was a truly unforgettable experience. I recommend taking the big jump and trying this experience even if afraid xx

What is your advice to future travelers on this program?
My advice for future travellers would be to prepare yourself for the different cuisine in China by doing research as you might not fully enjoy all Chinese dishes
Pros
  • Teaching Experience
  • Cultural exchange
  • New friends/family
Cons
  • Different Cuisine
  • Cultural shock
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Deniza
4/5
Yes, I recommend this program

DenizaG

Living and working in China as part of a cultural exchange program can be an incredibly enriching and transformative experience. If you love children, this program could be perfect for you. It offers the opportunity to immerse yourself in a foreign culture while also making a meaningful impact on the lives of young people. The experience is fun, rewarding, and will stay with you long after you return home.

One of the most exciting aspects of living in China is the chance to explore the country's beauty. China is a vast and diverse country, with something for everyone—breathtaking landscapes, vibrant cities, historical landmarks, and a rich cultural heritage. Whether you’re strolling through the bustling streets of Beijing, hiking the ancient Great Wall, or exploring tranquil tea fields in the countryside, there’s always something new to discover. The country is steeped in history and tradition, and living there gives immense opportunities

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Knarik
5/5
Yes, I recommend this program

Amazing adventure

Good opportunity to discover China and Chinese cilture. I had 6 wonderful months, gained new experiences, and had fun with my cool host family.I have learned Mandarin and for sure it will be useful in my life. I would like to mention that being China is really different feeling and doesn't match our thoughts before coming. Everyone should visit China even for one time and AuPair program giving us that opportunity. China is so safe and has kind people which we need to wnjoy our life. I like China and Chinese people, hope to be back again🫶🏻❤️❤️

What was your funniest moment?
When I was speaking Chinese and everyone getting shocked, and when I was mading them to speak English whenever I couldn't understand Mandarin.
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Clàudia
2/5
Yes, I recommend this program

Expect the unexpected

The overall experience was a mixed bag, but mostly enjoyable. I would think this is related to needing a long time to get used to my host family's lifestyle which was worlds different from my own, both due to cultural differences and their social status. "It is important to know beforehand what your role in the household will be exactly so that you can mentally prepare accordingly!" is what I would say to myself if I were to go back in time before my trip! I think that would have made my stay much more pleasant.

Besides that fact, my family was very sweet and respectful towards me and tagged me along for almost anything, which let me see a lot about the city of Beijing! It is a most beautiful place, that one, it never lacks for anything to do or have fun with.

The food was also a plus! The family's Ayi had her ways with a wok and whipped up some of the most flavorful cuisine I have ever had, even if the spice destroyed my stomach on occasion. The house was always clean and tidy and the commune we were in was very pretty and had great views. I didn't go out on my own often due to a lack of free time ( which was very taxing ) but even if I stayed out late, it always felt safe to be out on the streets, even as a solo female traveler, though I wouldn't recommend straying from popular streets at night, just in case.

When it comes to my experience with the kids, I was in a family of five, with three kids under the age of 10. Here is where the subversion of expectations comes into play, for it was quite a twist to come across such young children who were so intelligent and academically smart and at the same time rude and wild. It was tricky to figure out how to approach them and guard them with their capricious nature and constant tantrums (which often involved me getting slapped, kicked, and bitten), and even at the end of my stay I still didn't fully understand how to manage with them, although they had been quite pacified by then. But when they were calm and in a happy mood they were, although very ecitable, regular children and we played and learned just fine (as stated, they were beyond their years when it came to schoolwork).

In summary, it was quite an experience. Time off was scarce but very welcome as I enjoyed being a tourist quite a lot. My experience as an Au Pair was rather harsh with the kids and that is why I wish I had known what kind of household I was going to, but that is very complicated to know with precision before you get there - It's quite the gamble.

But then again, it was not the end-all-be-all of my stay for me. I would recommend daring and curious people to check it out and become an au pair. This experience taught me about myself, about what it's like to be far from home, about my boundaries and my needs. The only thing I would see as a definitive requisite for anyone willing to try this out is patience!

What is your advice to future travelers on this program?
You had better be somehwat fluent in Chinese or quickly make some chinese friends to hang out with, because almost no one understands or speaks english over there! It will boost your language skills through sheer necessity!
Pros
  • Discovering a completely new culture
  • Making new international friends and aquaintances
  • Improving your language skills
Cons
  • Might take a long time to adapt
  • Food is not always pleasant (that can't be helped hehe)
  • Might be hard to move around alone if you don't know a lot of Chinese
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Jolana
4/5
Yes, I recommend this program

My stay in china

I spent many months in China as an Au Pair under Wanderlust Exchange in a few cities.
I got contacted by them and signed up because I was interested in coming to China without having to study at a uni. And they were a lot more efficient and fast than the other agency I was planning to go with so I chose them. Personally, the recruitment, family matching and visa process was really smooth for me due to them laying out specific instructions. Though for the family interviews I wish I had had my current experience and knowledge, the choice of the hostfamily is really crucial for your experience.
So after two months I arrived in China and my coordinator/recruiter picked me up and brought me to the train station, managed the settling in into the family and reached out from time to time to ask about how things were going, plus relaying the feedback from my hostmum. I went on a two-day city tour and got my Chinese bank card.
The visa extension process in HongKong was also super smooth, I prepared all the paperwork with WE, got instructions etc. Due to flight delays I arrived at my hotel very late, I remember that one of my visa-coordinators stayed till 1am up to make sure I arrived and checked in safely in the hotel. The rest of the trip went smoothly, but make sure to have lots of savings for your time there.
I think sometimes some things can be inconsistent. Like Au Pairs in Shanghai benefit from in-person classes and also the extra group speaking sessions that SN school provides, I believe. But some of their culture activities are online. I've only ever had online classes but all my culture activities were in person and some of them were solo-classes too. I feel very grateful to have had a Hanfu-event, that was the coolest. Not all aupairs did that. I also did pottery, Chinese art activities, archery etc. Not all recruiters, coordinators act the same, are as dedicated etc, it depends on luck who you get, just like with the hostfamilies.
Also, for the first few months I didn't have culture activities, but when I and a few others in my city reminded them they arranged for us to catch up to all the activities, which we did.
Still, I wouldn't change anything about this year here, I've grown a lot and learned a lot. China has given me the opportunity to meet many great friends here, both Chinese and foreigners. The social circle of the Au Pairs is really supportive and it's easy to find friends that way. My stay with my hostfamilies was full of ups and downs, but overall I will look back gladly on both the nice parts and "bad" parts, both taught me a lot about myself and life. I'm so grateful for having met all my hostsiblings, for the time I spent with them, for the love they gave me :)) My 中国弟弟&妹妹 <3
I'm glad I signed up, though I'm also glad to start something else now. Au Pairing has its' highs and lows and it's difficult sometimes so you have to be prepared to face the challenges. Be sure to have lots of savings though in case some unexpected events or emergencies happen, be very careful regarding the hostfamily-matching, don't be scared to ask for a rematch if you feel it's not right or safe and build a supporting social circle.

What would you improve about this program?
I think the choice of your hostfamily is the thing that can make or break this experience. That's why I believe that:
1. Families should have to go through a mandatory orientation/course where they are educated about the exact role an Au Pair will play, how they should be treated and what standards they should be held up to. Some families have expectations that are very hard or sometimes impossible to reach, even if you try your best, like regarding the speed of improvement of their child's English or how you should act as an Au Pair, your duties and non-duties etc.
2. Au Pairs should be able to contact a family's previous Au Pairs to get a good look for how a family is behind closed doors before they sign a contract. Au Pairs move across the world to go live with a family they have never met previously, basically strangers. It would be safer if you can contact and connect with others and get a 2nd opinion aside from the agency. If it's the family's first time in a program like that they should pass necessary safety-screenings beforehand.
Pros
  • Lots of families are part of the program - lots to interview woth and choose from
  • Social scene is great in the big cities
  • For ~me~ personally everything has always been efficient and fast with WE
Cons
  • Smaller cities get boring and isolating quickly even if your family is great
  • Things with agency were chaotic sometimes, esp when coordinators changed
  • Some families don't respect 1,5 days off/ 30h workweek and other boundaries, WE isn't strict enough with them imo
Response from Wanderlust Exchange

Dear Jolana,

Thank you so much for sharing your detailed and heartfelt experience with Wanderlust Exchange! We are truly happy to hear that your time in China was filled with personal growth, new friendships, and memorable cultural activities. It's wonderful to know that, despite some challenges, you look back on both the highs and lows as valuable learning experiences.

We appreciate your feedback about the recruitment and visa process running smoothly, as well as your insights on host family matching and the importance of preparation. We understand that every au pair’s journey is unique, and we're always striving to make each experience as rewarding and supportive as possible. We're glad that you felt supported by your coordinator and were able to catch up on cultural activities when needed, it means a lot to us!

We also recognize your point about some inconsistencies between coordinators and activities in different cities, and we will certainly take this into account as we continue to improve our services.

Thank you for your kind words and your thoughtful reflections. We wish you the very best in your next adventure, and we're grateful to have been a part of your journey in China!

WE Team

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Tanyra
4/5
Yes, I recommend this program

My experience as an au pair

Being an au pair in China was an incredibly rewarding experience. I had the chance to live with a local family, help a 14-year-old with her English, and fully immerse myself in Chinese culture. Although it wasn’t always easy, especially when adapting to new food and cultural differences, these challenges helped me grow both personally and linguistically. I improved my language skills, learned patience, and developed adaptability. I highly recommend this program for anyone seeking personal growth and a deep cultural exchange.

What is your advice to future travelers on this program?
My advice to future travelers on this program is to be open-minded and adaptable. Living with a host family in a different country can be challenging at times, but it’s a great opportunity for personal growth and cultural immersion. Make an effort to learn the local language and embrace the differences in daily life. Also, don’t be afraid to ask questions or seek help when you need it. Enjoy the experience and make the most of every moment!
Pros
  • Full cultural immersion in a local family environment.
  • Improved language skills and better understanding of the local culture.
  • Personal growth through handling responsibilities and adapting to new challenges.
Cons
  • Difficulty adjusting to the local food at first, which affected my skin. (Too much oil in Chinese food)
  • Cultural differences can sometimes be challenging to navigate.
  • Homesickness and missing family or familiar surroundings.
Response from Wanderlust Exchange

Dear Tanyra,

Thank you for sharing your positive experience as an au pair in China! We’re so glad to hear that your time with a local family allowed you to fully immerse yourself in Chinese culture and help your host sibling with their English.

It’s inspiring to see how you embraced the challenges of adapting to a new environment and turned them into opportunities for personal and linguistic growth.

Your recommendation means a lot to us, and we hope your story encourages others to embark on their own journey of cultural exchange and self-discovery. Thank you again for being part of our program, and we wish you all the best in your future endeavors!

(What a great smile on your face- this is what drives us moving forward and achieve more within our effort❤️)

Warmly,
WE Team

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Melissa
2/5
No, I don't recommend this program

RUN AWAY

If you want to be an aupair in China, just avoid this agency for your security.

The experience to be an aupair was at first a nightmare... I was mistreated physically, and mentally by my first host family. When i informed the agency, they clearly said it was normal for them and they will not change anything. Let me pay everything by myself whereas i win only 2000rmb per month?

Hopefully some girls who was fired, succeeded to help me. I change my family but it was clearly not thanks to the agency.

They prefer defend horrible host family to get their money, and don't care about their aupair rights.

Whereas we are in a new country that we don't even know. We are very young some are only 18.

So many story about aupairs sleeping outside because the agency don't know how to settle a rematch, or just let them being kick out from their family.

Some aupairs just letting by themselves alone to go in an another city by train ? everything is in chinese, its really difficult for aupairs just arrived.

If you complain about something they will make a pressure on you and try to don't give you the stipend money, even if you finish your contract :)

.... So many stories i am not even able to tell everything just run away.

What was the most unfamiliar thing you ate?
i ate some snake.
Pros
  • discovering china (when you have a good family who don't make you overwork)
  • the food (when your family allows you to eat)
  • my friends
Cons
  • the incapacity of the agency
  • no assistance from the agency
  • no help from the agency
Response from Wanderlust Exchange

We are truly saddened to receive an overall score that reflects your dissatisfaction with our agency. While we strive to provide the best possible experience for both au pairs and host families, we acknowledge that not every situation is perfect, and our processes may have room for improvement.

We genuinely appreciate that you took the time to share how you felt during your time with the first host family, and we are equally glad to know that through our communication, you were able to bond well with your second host family. Your ability to find a better experience is something we are pleased about, even though the journey started off in a difficult way.

We welcome constructive feedback, and while the way it was presented feels disheartening, we respect your right to express your concerns. We always aim to learn and grow from the experiences shared by our au pairs, and your feedback will help us reassess and improve our processes to better support future participants.

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Haykuhi
5/5
Yes, I recommend this program

Wonderful Experience

I've only been here for two months, but I can say that I've been too many places in two months, both with my host family and by myself. It was a dream for me to be in China since I was a child and this program was an incentive for me to come to China and discover China. Thank you very much and I suggest everyone who likes China to apply for this program because this is a good way to discover China.I also want to talk about the Chinese teacher, very kind, I can say that she was not just a teacher for me, but also a friend. It was also interesting for me that people were very kind on the street, when I was walking they made comments to me and said that I am very beautiful and also that my Chinese speaking is very good.I don't think this was a funny moment but at the same time we were laughing,but there were very interesting and beautiful moments when I was walking on the street, everyone told me that my nose and eyes were big and that I was very beautiful, and I was happy with every word. The program was very interesting on my free days and by myself I visited interesting places together with the host family, I discovered Beijing, which aroused great and beautiful interest in me and my love for China grew even more. Thanks to this program, I came to China, which was my dream. And I think I will try to come to China again with this program in the future

Pros
  • kind and interesting people
  • delicious food
  • interesting and historical places
Cons
  • mosquito
  • extremely hot weather
  • hot water everywhere
Response from Wanderlust Exchange

Hello Haykuhi,

Thank you so much for sharing your experience! We are thrilled to hear that your two months in China have been so enriching and fulfilling. It’s wonderful to know that this program helped you realize your childhood dream of discovering China, and that you’ve had the opportunity to explore so many places with your host family and on your own.

We’re especially happy to hear about your positive experiences with your Chinese teacher—having someone who feels like both a teacher and a friend can make such a difference!

Your story about the kind comments from people on the street is heartwarming. It's great to know you’ve felt welcomed and appreciated, and that it added to the beauty of your time in China.

We’re delighted that this program has deepened your love for China, and we look forward to hopefully welcoming you back again in the future. Thank you for recommending us, and we wish you even more exciting adventures during your stay!

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Ashlyn
4/5
Yes, I recommend this program

Great program!

Wanderlust has been super helpful along the whole way of my program! They always reply to messages super fast! Definitely a great experience I think anyone would enjoy! I got to see so many amazing sights and try so many amazing foods. Definitely an experience I will never forget! I think one of my favorite parts of the program is getting to truly bond with the kids and have a family like relationship with them. I would recommend this program to anyone who has ever been curious as to what Chinese culture is all about.

What was your funniest moment?
I think all the times I got to see cultural sights with my host family. For example I got to see West Lake and Lingyin temples which are both beautiful!
Pros
  • Traveling and cultural experience
Cons
  • Work hours sometimes are a lot
Response from Wanderlust Exchange

Dear Ashlyn,

Thank you for your kind review! We’re delighted to hear that you had such a memorable experience and that our team was able to assist you promptly throughout your journey.

It’s wonderful that you got to explore so many amazing sights and try delicious food, but even more special to hear about the strong bond you formed with the kids and the family-like connection you experienced.

Your recommendation means a lot to us, and we’re so happy this program helped you discover and connect with Chinese culture. We hope your memories from this adventure stay with you for a lifetime, and we’d love to welcome you back anytime!

We truly appreciate your feedback to us in making our work better as well.

Sincerely,
WE Team