My name is Madelyn Jenkins and I am 17 years old. I went on the Rustic Pathways “Ultimate Asia” trip when I was 15 years old. I had been on two other trips to Costa Rica and Hawaii with another company, but I had been dying to see different parts of the world and their cultures. My trip took me to China, Thailand, Laos, and Cambodia. It was the best 3 weeks of my life and the best decision I have ever made. I walked the Great Wall of China, taught students English in Thailand, worked with Elephants in Laos, and biked through the Angkor Wat temples in Cambodia. Those are just a few examples of the amazing experiences I had on my Rustic trip. There were only 2 other girls on my trip, and 6 guys. We were a smaller group, but that allowed us to bond so much better. I was the youngest on my trip, which was intimidating at first. But instead of my age being a hinderance, the students on my trip made it seem like it was an advantage. I got to learn from my peers who were older than me, and it allowed me to mature in a way I’m not sure would have been possible in a group of peers my own age. The girls became like my older sister and the guys like my brothers, we all became a big family by the end of the 3 weeks. I also got some of the best trip leaders I’ve ever had. Mary and Josh were my main leaders, and they helped us through every tough time, and encouraged us to get out of our comfort zones and try new things. I tried foods I never thought I would, and participated in activities that would have otherwise terrified me. I learned leadership, confidence, and independence. It was such a comfortable and safe space that I could be 100% myself without judgement, which is a huge deal when you are in high school. I urge anyone who is looking for the adventure of a lifetime to seriously consider Rustic Pathways. I will say these trips aren’t for everyone though. I would recommend an open mind, flexibility, and easy going spirit. At the end of the day you are a part of a team and community, so being able to thrive in a group is crucial. If those characteristics fit you, then Rustic Pathways is the place for you.
What is your advice to future travelers on this program?
My only advise to future travelers would be flexibility, an open mind, and living in the moment. It is so important to be flexible because depending on the weather or other elements at play, the schedule can change in an instant. Often times those are some of the best memories of the trip though because it leads you to improvised adventures that create lasting memories. An open mind is key because at times you will be challenged to step outside your comfort zone, wether that pertains to food, activities, or even connecting with people who don’t share your same views or values. That is such an important aspect of the trip though because it pushes you to grow and change as a person. I know I learned more about myself through the tough experiences than anything else. Finally, at the end of the day, these trips are meant for students to have fun an enjoy themselves in a different environment than their everyday lives. It is so important to soak in every moment and opportunity even if it isn’t something you are looking forward to. An activity that you don’t think you really want to do often times opens up a whole new door of passion you never knew you had. So live in the moment and enjoy every second, because before you know it, you will be back at home wishing you could relive those last 3 weeks.