High School Abroad

High School Study Abroad: What Parents Need to Know

Sending your child on a high school study abroad can be scary for parents. Find out how to manage the uncertainties of this exciting adventure as well as how to best support your student before, during, and after their studies overseas.

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  • Rather than adding international coverage to your child's phone plan, unlock their phone and have them buy a SIM card once overseas.
  • Download and learn how to use apps like Skype and Whatsapp to make communication with your student quick, easy, and free.
  • Buy a travel insurance plan that covers Covid-related treatment and will reimburse you for canceled plans.
  • Encourage your child to check in to tell you about their experiences but allow them the space to fully enjoy their time overseas.
  • Embrace your child's newfound independence and confidence after their return. Study abroad will change them for the better!
High School Study Abroad: What Parents Need to Know

After nurturing these humans from the moment they’re born until they’re independent and energetic teenagers, the last thing that any parent wants is to help them pack their bags and see them off at the airport to travel to a faraway land where your hugs won’t be readily available for fixing problems.

You’re letting your baby go, but it’s truthfully for the best reason possible.

You’re letting your baby go, but it’s truthfully for the best reason possible. In this time in history, travel is becoming more popular and is proven to open young minds and create a more well-rounded and compassionate individual (if done correctly). Letting your teen study abroad in high school has many major benefits for them.

Still, we understand you're nervous, so to mull your concerns, here's your guide on what to know before they go.

Keeping in contact -- a touchy subject

High School Study Abroad: What Parents Need to Know: Keeping in Contact

Though you’ll want to remain in constant contact with your child, this is a time when you can practice letting go a little bit.

Your young adult is heading out on what could quite possibly be their biggest adventure they have had -- and even if they wanted to, they wouldn’t have time to update you on every move they made. So don't think that a missed phone call means something bad happened.

Plus, if you’re in touch with them all day everyday, there’s a large chance that while they’re taking time to Skype or talk to you, they’ll be missing out on some great opportunities!

However, it is still important for both of you to remain in contact at some points. Here are a few things to keep in mind to make your chats stress free and not cramp their style:

Don’t get them an international phone plan

Though it may seem like the easiest option, purchasing an overseas package on their current US phone plan will only give you headaches complete with roaming fees and data usage charts skyrocketing. Instead:

  • Find out if their current phone is eligible to be unlocked by the phone company.
  • Once they're in country, have them buy a local sim card and refill it with credit as needed.
  • Students could also buy a cheap local phone and leave theirs at home.
  • Both you and your student can download free communication apps like Whatsapp for texting and Skype for video chats. Both function over wifi and will incur no data or text charges.
  • Note: to avoid crazy roaming charges, have them keep their phone on airplane mode at all times -- even when they turn wifi on.

This way you will still have access to Facetime or Skype if and when needed, but they won’t be playing candy crush while at the Louvre and will be able to enjoy their time away from home.

Send snail mail and care packages

Yes of course in this current era the use of letters and postcards has long passed and it almost seems silly for a family to send them when they’re Skyping every week. However, writing down experiences makes the writers reflect on their actions, ingest the new world around them, and truly calm and center themselves in an unfamiliar (but awesome) place.

If they have a mailing address and are in one spot for long enough, send postcards or letters overseas. If they do get into this practice as well, you can save their writing and put it in a scrapbook for them to have as a welcome home present that helps with the reverse culture shock that we’ll talk about later.

Learn to love Skype and FaceTime

If your child has access to Skype, Facetime (which should already be on your iPhone) or another program with video capabilities, try and schedule a time during the week that works well for both of you to talk.

This way, you’ll know when you’ll be able to talk to your child without distractions and keep in touch weekly without any problems. If you're unfamiliar with Skype, do a test call with them before they leave so you can both get the hang of it.

Encourage them to create a blog

If your trailblazer likes to write and wants to document their journey and share it with many friends and family, talk with them about creating a blog so that everyone can follow along in their weekly outings. IF they aren’t much of a writer, they can still have a photography blog to show off the sights and sounds of their new world (Tumblr works great for this style).

Though you will want to know every move they make, if your son or daughter doesn't talk to you everyday, it's usually a good thing!

Then you can proudly shout out their web address to others at family functions and watch them ooh and ahh at your little world-traveler.

Remember, no news is good news

Though you will want to know every move they make if your student doesn’t talk to you every day, it’s usually a good thing! This means that they’re out exploring their new world and aren’t homesick enough to hunker down in their apartment to talk to you. Don’t take offense! Don't panic! You’re letting your little bird fly!

Also, if anything serious happens, your student's study abroad program provider will get in contact with you ASAP. If your child hasn't called you in a little too long, please, don't call up the study abroad provider at 3 am in the morning in a panic! Instead, keep in touch with other parents with kids on the trips. Chances are, there's at least one kid talking to their parents, and you can get some peace of mind with that through-the-grapevine news.

Homesickness is normal but don’t make it worse

High School Study Abroad: What Parents Need to Know: Homesickness

Of course being away from home for the first time is going to produce homesickness at some point. However, there are ways to help your child get through this, and ways to hinder their experience as well -- which you need to watch out for.

Many parents I've seen have sent packages after packages, loaded their children down with products from home, created a technological cloud around their heads with a wave of communication and electronics, and sent them on their way.

On bad days, these kids hole themselves up in their apartments snacking and watching Netflix while they sit in their bed and Facetime everyone they know from home until they can go to bed again. This is not doing them any favors.

Instead, what they need is to get out and enjoy their new surroundings, make new friends and look at what adventures are in front of them instead of how much they miss their dog.

Limit the amount of food and comforts of home they’re allowed to take with them and make sure they bring things like a great camera, a sketchbook, or something else that will allow them to get out and experience the culture and life abroad! It’ll help them in the long run.

Keeping them safe from afar

For parents, safety is of the utmost concern whenever your children are away. As we’ve said, for a student in high school, this abroad experience will probably be their first time away without you -- which makes some Moms and Dads grow gray hair with even just the thought of it.

There are a few things you can do before your child takes off abroad, as well as after they’re there to make sure that they return happy, healthy, and in one piece from their journey:

Talk about safety before departure, but don’t scare them!

Though you’ll want to jump right into the “don’t talk to strangers” spiel, refrain from scaring them! Though they are heading abroad – they are remaining in the same world full of good people and bad.

The honest point of these kids heading abroad is to enjoy and learn other languages, cultures, beauties, and people. If they are nervous that all will swindle or hurt them, the culture will be lost to them.

Of course, speak about the safety of their purses when walking in crowded areas. Talk to them about drinking alcohol (because they may be of legal age abroad) and mention that they should always walk home with friends after a night out. Little details mentioned through the trip-prep will stay with them abroad and help them to have your voice of reason in the back of their head when met with complicated situations.

Study abroad in the time of Covid-19

Study abroad organizations have begun reinstating programs but with updated restrictions and protocols. Students will need to provide proof of a negative PCR test before traveling to most countries. Depending on the program, vaccinations may or may not be mandatory. You should encourage your child to wear a mask in public and on transportation and follow the local country's Covid laws.

Many programs are implementing the use of "travel pods" which are set small groups of students within the larger group. Pods are used to limit exposure among students. This structure may be followed initially or during the entire trip.

Good travel insurance, like World Nomads, is indispensable. It's important to be sure your child is covered for Covid treatment if they get sick while abroad and that medical evacuation back home is included. Quality plans will also reimburse travel costs due to unexpected cancellations or if your child gets sick before departure and you have to change plans.

If your child's program gets canceled while they are already abroad, the organization will coordinate with you to arrange return flights.

Find a program with a host family for peace of mind

Generally, the accommodations on programs available for high school students are with host families, dorm-style rooms, or, more uncommonly, apartments.

Little details mentioned through the trip-prep will stay with them abroad.

For a teenager leaving home for the first time, you and your child may feel more comfortable if they have a family to go home to at night. Host families sign up to take in international students for a semester or more and welcome them into their family.

This would allow your student to study abroad, truly delve into the culture during and after classes, and still have someone responsible for looking after them. Plus, the pro of having a family to stay in contact with after they return home will certainly help with their culture shock a bit more!

Of course, if your student is doing a study-and-travel program, this may not be an option. If it is though, take advantage!

Trust your program

You’ve researched and made a conscious decision with your child about where they will study and put lots of thought and effort into signing up for a program that has great reviews and a good record. So, you should have confidence in them. Truly trust that they will be there when you cannot be.

These companies are in business because parents want someone to be their backup when a son or daughter goes overseas. Let them do their job! But, of course, this is after you do yours of researching and making sure the program you picked is perfect! (Psst, you do know you're already in the right spot to find high school programs abroad, right?)

Reverse culture shock is a real thing

High School Study Abroad: What Parents Need to Know: Reverse Culture Shock

Returning home after time abroad can be almost as big of a cultural shock as being away and some students are more affected than others.

When I came home from studying in Italy, I went to the grocery store to get ricotta cheese for my mother and almost had a nervous breakdown because there were too many choices. For the past four months I had just been going to my butcher shop and pointing to the only ricotta there and asking for a slice. The surplus of America shocked me.

Of course, after a month or two I stopped complaining that the coffee was horrible and I gave in to the fact that a car was necessary to get places in the USA (after many attempts of me walking everywhere which led to my mother rescuing me in rain storms on the side of busy roads with no sidewalks).

It's a process, so be sensitive when your teen gets back home and isn’t exactly the same as when they left. They aren’t! They’ve grown and have become a citizen of the world!

Even if they talk about their study abroad experience to the point that it's driving you crazy, try to remain nice. Be the one person that wants to hear about it -- they're just excited to share!

Love their new identity!

The largest transition that happens when your child is abroad – especially in high school -- is that this is the first time they are truly on their own. They are beginning to shop for themselves, run their own agenda, and make their own decisions -- so they’ll probably become a bit more independent upon their return.

Congratulations on raising a globetrotter and keep the support coming throughout their travels in the future.


Perhaps they’ll have a greater interest in politics, cooking, or cleaning the house. Or maybe they’ll just be happy to be back to a place where someone else does their laundry for them but they’ll have more appreciation for it!

Embrace these changes regardless of what they are and accept that your little baby is growing up. Congratulations on raising a globetrotter and keep the support coming throughout their travels in the future. Truthfully, airplane tickets are better than birthday cakes anyway.

For more in-depth strategies, read our parents guide to study abroad.