Before this program, I had just finished my first year of college. I was left feeling empty, hopeless, and without joy. I had no actual connection with any of my peers or professors. Everything felt so transactional and fake, and I soon began to question if this was truly meant for me. During this period, I felt lifeless and had fallen into an existence of no real meaning, hidden from the world. I was so afraid to get out of my comfort zone and had become accustomed to living in such a monotonous, passionless way. I felt like I was without a soul.
As you could likely tell, deciding to go to Seguinland was not an easy choice for me, and without my Mom's guidance, I would not have made it. I am forever thankful for her urging me to go. Also, I felt deep within me that this was the environment I needed to be in. It was as if a tiny flame had reignited from within, and it only continued to grow and grow over my time there. Now then, my experience at Seguinland... It was of pure beauty, love, joy, and creation. I am constantly grateful to have had the opportunity to participate in the Good Life Gap Semester. It reawakened my mind, body, and soul to the world again. There is a difference between being alive and FEELING alive!
Overall, the program focused on the importance of community, belonging, reciprocity, awe & wonder, gratitude, the natural world, play, art, and much more, and cultivates these ideas through interactive discussions, field trips, creative projects, cottage life conversations, mindfulness, food, and more. I cannot emphasize enough the significance of the ideas and thoughts explored; every discussion was so impactful, enlightening, and crucial for our existence in the world today. This program fosters young adults who will build a beautiful society for all.
This is a place of LOVING community; I can say that with utmost certainty. Never have I felt more cared for and accepted than here. The friends that I have made in this program, I believe, will last from this life into the next. I care so deeply for them, and they care so deeply for me; relationships are the key to a good life. This is something I had no clue that I was missing beforehand.
The Seguinland instructors are by far the most insightful, thoughtful, and just wise people I have had the privilege of learning from. The entire Seguinland team is so welcoming, friendly, and accommodating. The CLAs (Community Life Assistants) were so, so much fun, and they always had awesome activities planned. I swear to you, everyone here has a different, more alive twinkle in their eye!
If anyone is reading this who is unsure whether or not to do it, like I once was, trust me... DO IT! It will take courage. You will likely feel uncomfortable at first. I know that I sure did. But that is the key to the good life! To let yourself feel every emotion and experience, even the somewhat uncomfortable ones. Allow yourself the gift of traveling into the unknown.
What was your funniest moment?
This is such a tricky question because there were so many funny moments. I would say many of them took place in the cottage with my roommates, but I cannot disclose those! I think just having inside jokes and things that you can laugh about with friends is one of the greatest gifts in the world.
One moment in particular was likely seeing my roommate's incredible dance moves, which he just made up on the spot. I genuinely don't understand what sparked that from inside him, but it is a core memory for me. Also, my other roommate, out of nowhere, started a dance battle and whipped out a perfect split. That was insane.