Location
  • China
    • Beijing
    • Shanghai
    • Hangzhou
Length
52+ weeks

Program Details

Activities
City Exploring
Timeframe
Academic Year Fall Spring Summer Winter Year Round
Housing
Host Family Hostel
Primary Language
English
Age Min.
18
Age Max
30

Pricing

Starting Price
300
Price Details
- $300-$800 program fee depending on the regions:
Zone1((UK, Ireland and Oceania): $300
Zone2(Euorpe, South Africa): $500
Zone3(North America): $800
What's Included
Accommodation Some Activities Airfare Meals Tour Guide Travel Insurance Visa Wifi
May 20, 2024
Apr 28, 2025
103 travelers are looking at this program

About Program

Nǐ hǎo! LoPair offers an award-winning cultural exchange program which enables you to become fully immersed in Chinese culture, learn Mandarin, make fantastic friends from across the globe. We'll provide you with a 3-12 month placement in a major Chinese city living in a homestay with a lovely Chinese or Expat family.

Your adventure starts with arriving in Beijing, Shanghai, or Hangzhou! You'll get professional Mandarin classes per week, fascinating cultural courses etc. You will assist host family with live-in educational childcare and some light household chores up to 30 hours a week — you'll get a room of your own, meals, insurance and international round way flight tickets! On top of this, you will have plenty of chances to explore on your own, with other au pairs and with your family while receiving pocket money per month!

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Program Highlights

  • FREE round-trip flights, homestay accommodation and insurance
  • FREE Mandarin lessons per week
  • ¥2000 pocket money per month
  • Choice of host families all located in metropolis (Beijing, Shanghai. Hangzhou)
  • Cultural activities

Program Reviews

4.52 Rating
based on 99 reviews
  • 5 rating 59.6%
  • 4 rating 36.36%
  • 3 rating 1.01%
  • 2 rating 2.02%
  • 1 rating 1.01%
  • Housing 4.75
  • Support 4.35
  • Fun 4.45
  • Value 4.5
  • Safety 4.7
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Marie
5/5
Yes, I recommend this program

Great experience

Spending 6 month in China was such a great experience. LoPair did a great job and the support was always good. Living in such a big city was a great experience and I’ll never forget that. Teaching a Chinese child is very interesting because you’ll always see the improvement after that time. Beside that I always enjoyed the Chinese lessons and I think that it was useful for me to learn such a different and interesting language. I’m very thankful for everything I’ve experienced and would always recommend the program. Thank you!

What was the most unfamiliar thing you ate?
The most unfamiliar thing I ate was frog and of course chicken feet
94 people found this review helpful.
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Wencke
4/5
Yes, I recommend this program

Chinese culture as its closest

Of you want to learn about Chinese culture and language than this is your program! LoPair provides good families and a very good support to make this a great experience. You will learn about Chinese traditions, language, food, music, values and beliefs. In terms of helping with communication or cultural differences LoPair is always there to help!! Also they arrange cultural events every month which makes it very easy to connect with other people in China and at the same time you are learning more about Chinese culture. In addition you will have Chinese Language lessons to learn how to speak Chinese and learn about the Chinese characters so you will be able to gain Chinese language skills. Choose LoPair to make the most out of your time abroad.

What is your advice to future travelers on this program?
Make a Chinese bank account to pay with WeChat or Alipay on your phone. Makes everything much easier
99 people found this review helpful.
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Hailey
5/5
Yes, I recommend this program

An adventure with great friends

My host family are amazing I made sure to take my time to pick them. I asked a lot of questions and asked what they like any movie or books to see what type of personality they have and about their family like grandparents. I very close with mine and I asked what they did in their free time. I had said no to other host family because personally we not the right fit not that they were not good but we are all different and some people great along great and sometimes it's not so smooth. So I picked my host family based on how I felt talking to them and after and it felt right. I would say never go to fast take your time to get to know them make the right choice. When you do you have a bond that with last years after I was 6 months now I am extending 3 more and plan to meet up again with my host family I truly love them. I not only had a wonderful time with them but also my lo pair works they are amazing people and I love them as much specially my hangzhou coordinator she has always put us first and cared with all her heart. I am grateful for the time and yes there have been some hard things but the world is big and different. as long as you can take the time to understand the difference between cultural. Then you will have a wonderful time with all the new friends and family you have here. Best of luck on your adventure.

What is your advice to future travelers on this program?
Understand that the world is different many people have a different idea and sould be represented so try to understand that and what is normal to you can be abnormal to someone else. So make sure your ready to learn, have fun and grow.
77 people found this review helpful.
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Lynn
4/5
Yes, I recommend this program

It's been a rollercoaster ride

I am about to finish my 8 months as an Aupair in Hangzhou and I have to say there were lots of ups and downs.
I had the luck to have an awesome hostfamily. My hostmom and I got along so so well and in the 8 months I spend here I can really say that she has become one of my best friends. Everybody in that family really cared for me as if I was a real family member. In the end it even felt like Grandma is my real Grandma and not just my Hostgrandma.
But of course being an Aupair isn't always rainbows and sunshine. Working with kids can always be really difficult and straining, especially because chinese kids are different. There were days that were amazing. My hostchild listened to me and we had a fun time. But there were also lots of times where sentences like „JieJie I don't want to play with you“ and „JieJie you are useless“ were on the menue.
You have to keep in mind that the chinese mentality is really different from what you are used to and the kids being spoiled and lots of pressure on their education is often normal.

In my time as an Aupair I grew alot. I've personally been through a hard time but it made me grow and I wouldn't want to take that back.
I made lots of new friends that grew important to me in a really short time and let alone the fact that I decided to extent my stay shows that I did enjoy my time here.
Now that I approach the end of my stay I have to say that I am indeed happy to go home but I am also happy that I decided to spend my time as an Aupair.
I am proud that I finished the program even though I don't think I would do it again. Being an Aupair once in your life is enough.

I'm also thankful for my Local Coordinator Yvonne because even if I didn't really have problems with my hostfamily Yvonne was always there to help. Also she was more like a friend to me than a person of authority which made talking to her about Problems a lot easier.

What is your advice to future travelers on this program?
make sure that you already know the basics of chinese culture before you come. It makes it a lot easier for you. The chinese mentality is a lot different from what we are used to and sometimes they might not understand what you want (or the other way around and you might not understand them. ) Being flexible and open-minded will help you a lot
81 people found this review helpful.
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Yian
5/5
Yes, I recommend this program

Unforgettable

Au pairing in Shanghai was the best decision of my life. Not only has my Mandarin improved greatly, I had the opportunity to enjoy life and make friends in my (new) favourite city.

Living with a host family was an overall pleasant experience, they treated me very well and any issues that came up were handled maturely and through a comfortable discussion. It's very rewarding to see your host child's skills improve.

The Lopair team try their best to help you adjust to living in a new country. They are always on hand for help regarding teaching methods. The cultural activities provided are fun and educational.

One of the best things about the programme is the quality of teaching at Mandarin House. The classes are often small and the teachers are brilliant, you improve a lot in a short amount of time.

What is your advice to future travelers on this program?
As fun as it is to be in a new city, it is always better when you're surrounded by people. When you arrive, try to make as many friends as possible - my most memorable times are centred around people, not places or activities.
81 people found this review helpful.
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Celina
4/5
Yes, I recommend this program

It's an experience

I'm currently completing the 6th month of my Au Pair in China, Shanghai.
I had a great time here. Of course there were good times as well as bad times. I was lucky I got a family where everyone could speak English. Means less misunderstandings because of different languages. But there were still a few things I had to get used to due to the cultural differences.
The highlight of the Au Pair were definitely the mandarin classes. I had a wonderful teacher who has a lot of patience. Of course the classes are challenging but my Chinese improved fast. The school is a great way to meet other people and get some social life going on even with a busy schedule.
My local coordinator, Yvonne, and the other lopair staffs always tried their best to help me when I had troubles. Yvonne is always very sweet.
My advice for people who consider doing an au pair:
Be 100% sure that this is what you want. You'll probably sacrifice a lot of your time for the family. Even if you like kids you need to understand that it means living with and being around kids most of the time. It's a difficult task and sometimes you also have to alter your own viewpoints on education/parenting to meet the standards of the host family (as for me, my host mom handles a lot of situations differently than I would've done if I had my own kids). You have to be mentally flexible

78 people found this review helpful.
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Carolin
4/5
Yes, I recommend this program

My challenge - Four seasons in Beijing

Soon I'll finish my Au Pair Program in Beijing. I started with a 6-month program and along the way I decided to stay 3 more months Chinas capital. China was my first time leaving and living abroad on my own and although it was scaring and different in the beginning, I adjusted pretty fast and well to the country and culture.
Throughout the program there were definitely a lot of ups and downs. Half way through the first part I decided to leave the family because of several issues with the children that weren't solvable. It took some time to get the rematch into motion, but once it happened I got a new family super-fast. After moving, things got much better for me and I started to get the feeling of family, even so much that I decided to extend my program (most people declared me crazy at that point) but I really enjoyed the time with my family. They took me to many places and cities in my 6 months with them and I'm grateful for all their effort.
During my time in China I also got to meet a lot of people and made friends from several countries. We had classes together and spent a lot of our free time visiting places around the city. Hopefully the contact lasts for a long time and opportunities for some trips to each others home countries will occur.
There were times when I was about to lose my head over some things because they are just very different from the western world, but that’s what you should expect when you go to a country like China. Stay open-minded, compromise and be flexible, that makes things a lot easier and if not, take a deep breath and remind yourself that it won’t be forever.
It’s been an exciting time here in China that helped shaping my personality further, as well as my knowledge and understanding. I got to love a lot of things around this country and I will definitely miss it a lot when I return home, but I'm also looking forward to go back to my family again.

What was the most unfamiliar thing you ate?
The three most unfamiliar things were definitley duck head, rabbit head and scorpions. Because of the family I also had chicken and pig feet and probably many more things I didn't even want to know. It is weird and somethings aren't really delicious, but it's worth the experience and people surely are shocked.
75 people found this review helpful.
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Virginie
4/5
Yes, I recommend this program

a very special experience

I spent 6 months with a family in Beijing. I experienced winter and summer (sort of), ups and downs. It was my task to care for two children (3 and 4 years old). Through many obstacles I've had to face I not only learned a lot, but also improved myself. On one hand it was very hard communicating, as many Chinese families don't speak English and in the end I would say communication was the biggest problem. On the other hand I had to learn and speak Chinese faster and more because of that. The program is great for making friends, but I was never able to do my Chinese homework due to the work. I had to bring the kids to Kindergarten in the morning, then pick them up in the afternoon and play/ study with them until bedtime. I definetly went through a cultureshock phase while living in a Chinese family. It is more like adapting to a new culture than culture exchange. It was hard but very rewarding to me.

What would you improve about this program?
I would honestly want to improve so much.
1. we are being reminded countless times how Chinese people are different and its a different culture so we need to put up with certain things. but the host families should also be reminded that they are inviting a foreigner into their home and thus also need to adapt a little.
2. the host family could have sold me to human trafficking and no-one would have noticed for a few months. surveillance of family and protection of aupair is not enough.
3. the families are always more important clients than you. this fact depicts itself in various aspects. the family is breaking the contract? who cares, your opinion doesn't matter. you have to work more than 30 hours, even 100 hours a week? no-one can help you. what the family wants the family gets. the organization needs to make sure the host families know the contents of the contract and stick to the terms.
4. the host families treat you like staff. family? bullshit. you are being overworked and underpaid. so just leave the family-like relationship you tell us we would have out of the description.
5. THE MONEY IS NOT NEARLY ENOUGH FOR THE AMOUNT OF WORK I DO
I paid more for the program than it got me back so I think there is definetly something wrong. every month my pocket money ran out in the first 2 weeks after I got it. I didn't spend recklessly but I was very active, visiting sights and scenic spots.
conclusion: this is a job offer not a cultural exchange program so please just tell the truth and don't deceive young and ambitious people.
73 people found this review helpful.
Response from LoPair Culture Exchange

Dear Virginie,

Thank you for your valuable comments regarding to LoPair Au Pair China Program.

We truly value your feedback for this program as it could help us to improve our program in the future and we are very sorry to hear that you had mixed feelings about your experience in China. We always try our best to deliver our high standard assistance to every aupair because helping every to have a good experience in this program means everything to us.

We are very happy to hear that you think you’ve improved yourself in many ways through this program, such as you’ve improved your Chinese language skills and made a lot of friends over the past few months.

As for your disappointment for the program, we assure you that we have addressed this issue with the team to find out what went wrong and take steps to ensure this is not repeated complained issue. Although we still need to make some clarification about some points such as your opinion about the pocket money being too less, we are sorry about that but the standard amount of pocket money of au pair China program is between 1500—2000 RMB as set forth by the national association to make sure it meets the legal requirement for cultural exchange programs in China.

If you still have more valuable opinions, we welcome you to contact us anytime for further discussion. My email address is iris.guo@lopair.com, or you can call me on (+86)18006718359. Please do believe that not just the host families are important to us, the aupairs are also the ones that we truly care about and we want you all have great experience here. Thank you once again for your feedback, and I look forward to hearing from you.

Best regards,
Iris Guo
Lopair Program Advisor

Questions & Answers

Hi Karlie, I agree with Clara that asking directly Lopair (aupair@lopair.com) is the best idea. I am 99% sure it's impossible to have two au pairs in the same family, but I think you guys can manage to be placed in the same city! The matching process might just take a little bit longer, because you have to make sure you both find your families in the same city. Hope this helped, and let me know if...